Dayan's ear is having those bumps, which I and Hb kinda suspect either too heaty or insects bites.. They will make him have fever, ear ache, and mummy heart pain. The bumps produce those pulpus in a big lump with yellow,green and blood mix. He always get this kind of stuff. on his toe,thighs, butts, face, even his eye lids inside which mummy has to be super hard-hearted to squeeze it all out over a week's time, if not it will harden and he then has to go for operation ( during all the squeezing, it really hurts like hell - I got it before hence I know how painful it is and it will spread). So I got squeeze it out for him at any parts of the body he kena, even his ear plus he is having fever and flu at the same time.
I got to know why he develop into such serious problems, 2 days later. He dig his own ear too deeply hence injured himself. Note: to See doctor later .
Monday, March 28, 2011
Sunday, March 13, 2011
His upset with Bliss Event -13/3/2011
We went to a Bliss Event at Opp Jurong Point the park. Dayan was upset.
I book for him a cookie decoration competition, there WAS no more COOKIES when we arrived... Then I Preregister for what!!! Even I was upset because I took the trouble to register him, and telling him about the decorations and even attempt him to do some home decorations on a baking paper.
He was sad but I told him at least we got the kite home, even though his brother's kite was missing. I took 2 T-shirts, 2 caps and 2 soft teddy bear(for his lost on the cookies thing) and 8 pkts of popcorn. which 1 gave 1 away for an old lady to get it exchange for an ice-cream as weather was very hot (another good deed done- quote a little makes her smile so much, makes me happy).
I call my dad to ask him where he was. He was at my Grandma's house. Namely Dayan's and Darren's great-grandmother. She my love. I keep having phy's- feeling whenever something happen to her(always, like the time she feel down, the maid was missing, when she gotten stroke, when she was hospitalization, when she broken her left side ribs, etc all because of either maid running to see boyfriend downstairs or was sleeping) Oh anyway back to Dayan's upset topic.
I took them by bus 242 to great-grandma's house to visit her and make sure she's well. We left about 30 mins later . Dad drove company lorry. We took his ride back to his house. In a while later, my mum was done with house chores, we went to Pasir Panjang Warehouse Centre (not sure if this is the right name) . We saw this and that. Well come to thing of it, this is their first time there. Had lots of fun running around as the place was like a playground to kids as most of them were closed. Even the uncles there offer them the wooden trolley to sit in, which they rejected immediately (Beware of stranger mode kicked in).
First we went to the front shop selling clothes,shoes, blankets etc. I kept asking the uncle to lower the pricing of a set of window curtain for my mum stating well $1 can buy me 1 pkt of onions lei. So the uncle say, I am hard bargainer(hehe- mummies, if u want me to help u bargain, bring me along).. Dayan ask me for that $1 to buy a can of ice-lemon tea(his soft spot). I told him is grandma paying for the items and I did bring Plain water for him to drink so "NO".
We went to dried goods section, vegetables section then fruits section. They saw dogs and ran towards them. the dogs was alarm of loud slippers plating sound, immediately they barked loudly. Dayan was shocked-scared and Darren stop and look at me. I told them they scared animals that way and to slow down. Let the mummy dog sniff my hands first before approaching, as there was 2 super cute puppies which I like, or everyone like. So brown and lovable. We had fun with 1 puppy as the other was super shy-went to hide.
We went to a shop selling fruits and I saw mango. I asked how much they were, 1kg cost $5. It was like huh, 1 mango already maybe 1 kg liao. So I ask 1 whole box how much they cost? They cost only $30. I might as well buy 1 box right, but then, I could go back to my mum house market to buy 1 mango for $1. Money saving is super important. And at the same time, I taught Dayan & Darren again the importance of $$$.
Well its drizzling, we went to West Coast Market to eat some food and head back to my parents house, where we had a late afternoon air-coned sleep-in hehe.. Well this is kinda well recieved as we dont own air-cons.
I book for him a cookie decoration competition, there WAS no more COOKIES when we arrived... Then I Preregister for what!!! Even I was upset because I took the trouble to register him, and telling him about the decorations and even attempt him to do some home decorations on a baking paper.
He was sad but I told him at least we got the kite home, even though his brother's kite was missing. I took 2 T-shirts, 2 caps and 2 soft teddy bear(for his lost on the cookies thing) and 8 pkts of popcorn. which 1 gave 1 away for an old lady to get it exchange for an ice-cream as weather was very hot (another good deed done- quote a little makes her smile so much, makes me happy).
I call my dad to ask him where he was. He was at my Grandma's house. Namely Dayan's and Darren's great-grandmother. She my love. I keep having phy's- feeling whenever something happen to her(always, like the time she feel down, the maid was missing, when she gotten stroke, when she was hospitalization, when she broken her left side ribs, etc all because of either maid running to see boyfriend downstairs or was sleeping) Oh anyway back to Dayan's upset topic.
I took them by bus 242 to great-grandma's house to visit her and make sure she's well. We left about 30 mins later . Dad drove company lorry. We took his ride back to his house. In a while later, my mum was done with house chores, we went to Pasir Panjang Warehouse Centre (not sure if this is the right name) . We saw this and that. Well come to thing of it, this is their first time there. Had lots of fun running around as the place was like a playground to kids as most of them were closed. Even the uncles there offer them the wooden trolley to sit in, which they rejected immediately (Beware of stranger mode kicked in).
First we went to the front shop selling clothes,shoes, blankets etc. I kept asking the uncle to lower the pricing of a set of window curtain for my mum stating well $1 can buy me 1 pkt of onions lei. So the uncle say, I am hard bargainer(hehe- mummies, if u want me to help u bargain, bring me along).. Dayan ask me for that $1 to buy a can of ice-lemon tea(his soft spot). I told him is grandma paying for the items and I did bring Plain water for him to drink so "NO".
We went to dried goods section, vegetables section then fruits section. They saw dogs and ran towards them. the dogs was alarm of loud slippers plating sound, immediately they barked loudly. Dayan was shocked-scared and Darren stop and look at me. I told them they scared animals that way and to slow down. Let the mummy dog sniff my hands first before approaching, as there was 2 super cute puppies which I like, or everyone like. So brown and lovable. We had fun with 1 puppy as the other was super shy-went to hide.
We went to a shop selling fruits and I saw mango. I asked how much they were, 1kg cost $5. It was like huh, 1 mango already maybe 1 kg liao. So I ask 1 whole box how much they cost? They cost only $30. I might as well buy 1 box right, but then, I could go back to my mum house market to buy 1 mango for $1. Money saving is super important. And at the same time, I taught Dayan & Darren again the importance of $$$.
Well its drizzling, we went to West Coast Market to eat some food and head back to my parents house, where we had a late afternoon air-coned sleep-in hehe.. Well this is kinda well recieved as we dont own air-cons.
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
2/03/2011 CDU review
After waiting for 3 months for appointment and rearranging his time slot as he having fever....
Finally got to see doctor. Yipee...... Got lots to say to doctor.
We arrived at 3.40pm appointment is at 4pm. But till 4.15pm still didnt get to see doctor, was called in. Finally going for bombing...
Was told he might have to repeat K2 again . Cause he cant recongise words at all. So cant read them out hence fail badly. Didnt have eye contact with doctor. And gotten confuse with alphabets M forgot and H is I. *piak head*.... I started teaching since a baby but to date still gotten wrong. His been having super lots of mirror words more then average kids even when the word is just beside him
Kept saying people bully him and also disturbing him. I did a check with teachers and notice that it was not the case. Hence I brought him for this review, cause he is behaving pattern came back all over again. repeating status over last 3yrs... He is having imagative bully.
I am worried. After that, we made a appointment to do IQ test in June and see again, what goes next for him.
But I also did notice that he is super good in drawing and even better. He can draw the Avatar Dragon on a paper and tried to color it exactly. Am proud of him.. He is good at computer too.
We went off after payment - $30, bought pasar malam chicken chop and a drawing bag which I promise him. Wah the bag was expensive. It cost in $10 per bag. Went to arcade to play animal kaiser card 1 time and head back to mum's home. We played at playground then 2 more playground and also to find his younger brother. Played longer and head back to eat dinner. Saw Dayan switch on Computer to play games . Btw the games are quite hard for his age kids ..
Signing off for now.
Finally got to see doctor. Yipee...... Got lots to say to doctor.
We arrived at 3.40pm appointment is at 4pm. But till 4.15pm still didnt get to see doctor, was called in. Finally going for bombing...
Was told he might have to repeat K2 again . Cause he cant recongise words at all. So cant read them out hence fail badly. Didnt have eye contact with doctor. And gotten confuse with alphabets M forgot and H is I. *piak head*.... I started teaching since a baby but to date still gotten wrong. His been having super lots of mirror words more then average kids even when the word is just beside him
Kept saying people bully him and also disturbing him. I did a check with teachers and notice that it was not the case. Hence I brought him for this review, cause he is behaving pattern came back all over again. repeating status over last 3yrs... He is having imagative bully.
I am worried. After that, we made a appointment to do IQ test in June and see again, what goes next for him.
But I also did notice that he is super good in drawing and even better. He can draw the Avatar Dragon on a paper and tried to color it exactly. Am proud of him.. He is good at computer too.
We went off after payment - $30, bought pasar malam chicken chop and a drawing bag which I promise him. Wah the bag was expensive. It cost in $10 per bag. Went to arcade to play animal kaiser card 1 time and head back to mum's home. We played at playground then 2 more playground and also to find his younger brother. Played longer and head back to eat dinner. Saw Dayan switch on Computer to play games . Btw the games are quite hard for his age kids ..
Signing off for now.
This is a blog delicated to Dayan's life.
I am typing in this super kinda of a late blog. Well better then nothing. Right.
Friday, August 7, 2009
Malaysia trip to Kukup with my parents & Darren 7/8/2009 to 9/8/2009
About Kukup:
Kukup Laut, a very unique and a century old fishing village built entirely on stilts on the sea surrounded by water, is the southernmost village found at the southwest tip of the Peninsular of West Malaysia, and suppose to be the southernmost village found in the Continental of Asia. Located about 70 kilometers away from Johor Bahru, and 20 kilometers from Pontian, Kukup Laut has only one road to access by land. It may be reached by sea boarding ferry leaving World Trade Center in Singapore daily. The entire village is linked by jetty also built on stilts on sea. This place is famous of its seafood. It’s geographically and ideally shadowed by one of the world’s largest mangrove swamp island – Kukup Island along which numerous fish-farms bob up and down on the surface of the Kukup Sea.
We went there together with a C.C. organised event. I always wanted a vacation badly. Look I got it and due to $$$ strain, My dad paid for the whole trip for me and the boys. To me my dad is kinda of slient doing his love for us in a different light. My father treat Dayan better. LOOK I'm jealous, I admit, cause he is different.
We gotten addicted to the otah and barbecue roasted meat there and also Ang Ku Que Jelly ( Its new in the market and it taste great). It was a bit boring though, but the air is great, the hei bi (dried shrimp) Smell is kinda of strong cause its a fishing village and they supply those to other parts of country.
I Remember the dangerous road as it is a fishing village and road inwards to where we stay doesnt have a normal path(with grills by the road sides) for people to walk. The Path is for all motorcycles and carts, people, etc... Oops I lost the pictures for the route that we took plus the temple we been to. Sian lor and sorry about it.
I only took a couple of shots of the sea-view, here they are:
This is Dayan's Little brother, behind is their grandmother and grandpa whom didnt want to be on candid camera and his wearing mummy's hand knitted hat that belongs to Dayan. Well Dayan brought another Super bright neon green knitted hat which we didnt took during the trip. Well its his love that he kept it away too well. I will dig out the picture of him wearing the hat.
We were basically fed like pigs = aka breakfast, tea time, lunch time, tea time, dinner time, supper and even late night supper. We super welcome this kind of food lifestyle everyday. hahaha PIGS feeling right. wont grow fat also hard.hahaha
We played with fireworks for the first time. it was super loud. Dayan's brother was screaming away(afraid). I couldnt find Dayan. He ran back to the room to hide. Well it is kinda ends my picture talking.
Lastly: I got a great recipe from the host. remember prawn fried cracker from Pasar Malam kind.
Here it is: Crispy Fried Prawn Cracker
Ingredients are all agar rations as being told and taught
flour, a pinch of salt and water. Mix to gluey running texture. * note: to add this last. Crispness came from ENO Brand-Green color bottle. ADD this 2 tablespoon- her agar ratio is to mix till it has small bubbles all around
Oil must be hot.
2 round spatula - for rotation for frying
Pour some mix on spatula and add in small prawns. Deep fried. When mix left the surface of spatula, remove and do the next batch. Rotate with 2 spatula. For us, we requested special as Dayan didn't like prawns, hence his is ko-song (PLAIN). It was superb tasty too. MUST be the ENO cause it was all gone before I manage to snap pictures of the cracker.. Note to drink herbal tea as heaty.
Kukup Laut, a very unique and a century old fishing village built entirely on stilts on the sea surrounded by water, is the southernmost village found at the southwest tip of the Peninsular of West Malaysia, and suppose to be the southernmost village found in the Continental of Asia. Located about 70 kilometers away from Johor Bahru, and 20 kilometers from Pontian, Kukup Laut has only one road to access by land. It may be reached by sea boarding ferry leaving World Trade Center in Singapore daily. The entire village is linked by jetty also built on stilts on sea. This place is famous of its seafood. It’s geographically and ideally shadowed by one of the world’s largest mangrove swamp island – Kukup Island along which numerous fish-farms bob up and down on the surface of the Kukup Sea.
We went there together with a C.C. organised event. I always wanted a vacation badly. Look I got it and due to $$$ strain, My dad paid for the whole trip for me and the boys. To me my dad is kinda of slient doing his love for us in a different light. My father treat Dayan better. LOOK I'm jealous, I admit, cause he is different.
We gotten addicted to the otah and barbecue roasted meat there and also Ang Ku Que Jelly ( Its new in the market and it taste great). It was a bit boring though, but the air is great, the hei bi (dried shrimp) Smell is kinda of strong cause its a fishing village and they supply those to other parts of country.
I Remember the dangerous road as it is a fishing village and road inwards to where we stay doesnt have a normal path(with grills by the road sides) for people to walk. The Path is for all motorcycles and carts, people, etc... Oops I lost the pictures for the route that we took plus the temple we been to. Sian lor and sorry about it.
Our room with my parents where we 3 spent the most time in.
I only took a couple of shots of the sea-view, here they are:
Dayan's not happy about these pictures but they are the only one's he is willing to take pictures of.
We were basically fed like pigs = aka breakfast, tea time, lunch time, tea time, dinner time, supper and even late night supper. We super welcome this kind of food lifestyle everyday. hahaha PIGS feeling right. wont grow fat also hard.hahaha
We played with fireworks for the first time. it was super loud. Dayan's brother was screaming away(afraid). I couldnt find Dayan. He ran back to the room to hide. Well it is kinda ends my picture talking.
Lastly: I got a great recipe from the host. remember prawn fried cracker from Pasar Malam kind.
Here it is: Crispy Fried Prawn Cracker
Ingredients are all agar rations as being told and taught
flour, a pinch of salt and water. Mix to gluey running texture. * note: to add this last. Crispness came from ENO Brand-Green color bottle. ADD this 2 tablespoon- her agar ratio is to mix till it has small bubbles all around
Oil must be hot.
2 round spatula - for rotation for frying
Pour some mix on spatula and add in small prawns. Deep fried. When mix left the surface of spatula, remove and do the next batch. Rotate with 2 spatula. For us, we requested special as Dayan didn't like prawns, hence his is ko-song (PLAIN). It was superb tasty too. MUST be the ENO cause it was all gone before I manage to snap pictures of the cracker.. Note to drink herbal tea as heaty.
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Dayan's Happiness
We went to West Mall to Play catch the sweets machine, and this is what we gotten at the very end. Well I kind of Heng lor. Simply spent $5 and got it. hehehe
Look at him, his so happy that he carried it all the way home... We walk ok. Didnt had enough for a bus trip home. hehe OOPs his not wearing Pants only underwear. For him to have such happiness, even for a short while seems a long time ago.
Sunday, April 24, 2005
Dayan's Birth Story.
Dayan's was a big beautiful baby. The doctor whom help delivered him was sweating like mad. Guess it's the doctor first few deliveries... He was a sweet beautiful baby. What more could a first time mummy ask for.
He was born at 1440hrs at NUH
Delivery: 38+3 weeks, Normal
Weight at birth: 3395gm
Length at Birth: 52cm
Head Circumference: 31.5cm
I remember how blue his eye's white were and even all whom seen him, commented on that blue eye's white. Was a very beautiful baby indeed. Was contented. After all the first born took me so many hours .I remember the day of birth like it was yesterday...hehehe
I had a sudden urge in the wee hours in the morning to go pee. But it was not pee. I made about 2/3 trips to toilet and squat trying to PEE in the kitchen toilet as I didnt want to disturb my parents whom are still deep asleep, as my mum is a light sleeper...
No PEE??? Strange. was about to walk out of the toilet when suddenly water was flushing out from below (lost of urine control, hummm cant be).. Literately got the water bursting sound "PLOP" and feeling..... I was still Stone from it and Its still WEE morning hours ... I remember reading that, I AM GIVING BIRTH At 7+am and noticing that I was screaming loudly.... BEeeeeeEEEEeeeee aka hb. HE was like WHAT!!!! :( :( I need to sleep..
I told him LOOK..... He said at where ''''''.. I told him below. And something like a big blood cot came out (size measure 7.3cm). I did have a cyst to remove after birth as it was growing.. So my mum took the blood thing along for them to do testing as hb and dad are afraid. I cause my mum to run into the kitchen to see me, Ok she asked, I remember I am still asleep . hahahaha
My mum ask my dad to get ready for work and drive me to NUH. My hb decided to change and go to work too but change his mind later??? Guilty-perhaps for saying what?
I was told by mum to take a shower first and change before going... took a shower with my mum rushing me.. Cant I bath peacefully and I cant CLOSE the Door for privacy.. *headache* due to mum insisting as she say I will faint inside.
Change and use a normal pad (hint for Mums to be, use after birth pads to hold water discharge ). Father and mum, assist me to lorry to sit. On the way to NUH, Was stuck in traffic jam at Clementi and it started drizzling.... By the time we reach the Emergency dept, It was raining cats and dogs. and the lorry was wet too.. My dad say its ok just a wipe will do. Heng no blood on the lorry as its his company's lorry.
HB was in birthing room with me. So they decided my hb to go work but he wanted to stay so my dad went to work, mum went home to prepare things for me.. Doctor check me and I was only 3 to 6 dilated.. why a difference due to child's movement up and down...
Was Super Hungry. but didnt take any food at all. Doctor says no food. So stupid, should ask hb to sneak in food to eat.
The nurses keep coming in to ask me take epidural. I cant take it as it got substance of pandol and asprin ( I read from magazine before). I told them NO. Dont they understand what is NO....
I was hook up to a dripping water bag -as water intake thingy and a bag of antibiotics, as Was afraid gotten infection and allergy to 'K' later on K is a drug thing-not sure about it much, but did read can die from it....
Getting worse the contractions, cant stand it anymore, was moaning away and thrusting about too much and nurses worried I will fall off the bed.. I panic and lost control as I didn't have any classes for birthing at that time. It haven't even started (So MTB go for the classes).
They took a look, and hurried the doctor came it. Baby is coming out, hence my madness. Hb was also mad that he told me DONT GIVE BIRTH LAH, GO HOME. He Scolded me V words a lot. It strangely somehow calm me down, I started breathing and pushing away. Was face red and eyes hurt from straining too much. Nurse told me to grab thighs, I dont want to grab my leg, I want to grab the bed handles but couldnt say out cause was super giddy already.
The nurse keep making me grab thighs and push ... No choice liao, baby coming... PUSH & PUSH... Baby head out half way. the urge Stop to push. Doctor was panicking away as baby was stuck at the breathing place, call me push. Suddenly urge came back and push out to shoulder. Stuck again. So he did the suction at nose first then suddenly urge came back and PLOP, Baby's out in a C position. Doctor didnt have time to react, heng the nurse beside him, hands reach out to hop baby if not in dustbin he goes..
I keep puking after birth, too hungry. Was sent to ward in evening time. And gotten a yellow feeling all over. Later was diagnosed with thyroid disorder for life. had fever also but was discharged.
SO here he is:
Lastly I lost the birthing video process done at NUH. I was told I was the first one to have it done. But it was gone from my computer. If anyone knows how to retrieve it do Help me.
He was born at 1440hrs at NUH
Delivery: 38+3 weeks, Normal
Weight at birth: 3395gm
Length at Birth: 52cm
Head Circumference: 31.5cm
I remember how blue his eye's white were and even all whom seen him, commented on that blue eye's white. Was a very beautiful baby indeed. Was contented. After all the first born took me so many hours .I remember the day of birth like it was yesterday...hehehe
I had a sudden urge in the wee hours in the morning to go pee. But it was not pee. I made about 2/3 trips to toilet and squat trying to PEE in the kitchen toilet as I didnt want to disturb my parents whom are still deep asleep, as my mum is a light sleeper...
No PEE??? Strange. was about to walk out of the toilet when suddenly water was flushing out from below (lost of urine control, hummm cant be).. Literately got the water bursting sound "PLOP" and feeling..... I was still Stone from it and Its still WEE morning hours ... I remember reading that, I AM GIVING BIRTH At 7+am and noticing that I was screaming loudly.... BEeeeeeEEEEeeeee aka hb. HE was like WHAT!!!! :( :( I need to sleep..
I told him LOOK..... He said at where ''''''.. I told him below. And something like a big blood cot came out (size measure 7.3cm). I did have a cyst to remove after birth as it was growing.. So my mum took the blood thing along for them to do testing as hb and dad are afraid. I cause my mum to run into the kitchen to see me, Ok she asked, I remember I am still asleep . hahahaha
My mum ask my dad to get ready for work and drive me to NUH. My hb decided to change and go to work too but change his mind later??? Guilty-perhaps for saying what?
I was told by mum to take a shower first and change before going... took a shower with my mum rushing me.. Cant I bath peacefully and I cant CLOSE the Door for privacy.. *headache* due to mum insisting as she say I will faint inside.
Change and use a normal pad (hint for Mums to be, use after birth pads to hold water discharge ). Father and mum, assist me to lorry to sit. On the way to NUH, Was stuck in traffic jam at Clementi and it started drizzling.... By the time we reach the Emergency dept, It was raining cats and dogs. and the lorry was wet too.. My dad say its ok just a wipe will do. Heng no blood on the lorry as its his company's lorry.
HB was in birthing room with me. So they decided my hb to go work but he wanted to stay so my dad went to work, mum went home to prepare things for me.. Doctor check me and I was only 3 to 6 dilated.. why a difference due to child's movement up and down...
Was Super Hungry. but didnt take any food at all. Doctor says no food. So stupid, should ask hb to sneak in food to eat.
The nurses keep coming in to ask me take epidural. I cant take it as it got substance of pandol and asprin ( I read from magazine before). I told them NO. Dont they understand what is NO....
I was hook up to a dripping water bag -as water intake thingy and a bag of antibiotics, as Was afraid gotten infection and allergy to 'K' later on K is a drug thing-not sure about it much, but did read can die from it....
Getting worse the contractions, cant stand it anymore, was moaning away and thrusting about too much and nurses worried I will fall off the bed.. I panic and lost control as I didn't have any classes for birthing at that time. It haven't even started (So MTB go for the classes).
They took a look, and hurried the doctor came it. Baby is coming out, hence my madness. Hb was also mad that he told me DONT GIVE BIRTH LAH, GO HOME. He Scolded me V words a lot. It strangely somehow calm me down, I started breathing and pushing away. Was face red and eyes hurt from straining too much. Nurse told me to grab thighs, I dont want to grab my leg, I want to grab the bed handles but couldnt say out cause was super giddy already.
The nurse keep making me grab thighs and push ... No choice liao, baby coming... PUSH & PUSH... Baby head out half way. the urge Stop to push. Doctor was panicking away as baby was stuck at the breathing place, call me push. Suddenly urge came back and push out to shoulder. Stuck again. So he did the suction at nose first then suddenly urge came back and PLOP, Baby's out in a C position. Doctor didnt have time to react, heng the nurse beside him, hands reach out to hop baby if not in dustbin he goes..
I keep puking after birth, too hungry. Was sent to ward in evening time. And gotten a yellow feeling all over. Later was diagnosed with thyroid disorder for life. had fever also but was discharged.
SO here he is:
Lastly I lost the birthing video process done at NUH. I was told I was the first one to have it done. But it was gone from my computer. If anyone knows how to retrieve it do Help me.
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